Reclaim your identity

For as long as you can remember, you have been a pleaser, depending on others to give you an identity.  You need not look at that only in a negative way.  You wanted to give your heart to others, and you did so quickly and easily.  But now you are being asked to let go of all these self-made props and trust that God is enough for you.  You must stop being a pleaser and reclaim your identity as a free self.”